Each was once a moment comes when he thinks about the meaning of his life. The answer comes immediately. To find it necessary to fall into very deep. And only there, in our inner depths , we find our core values.
"Values at everyone" - you might say. Their the ones that determine the individuality of each one of us. Absolutely. And unite us all - the need for love. The energy that nourishes, heals and straightens. It does not happen much. And when we are full, we begin to radiate. We naturally want to share our warmth.
The next priority for us is to create a space near the native - family. When we are warm trusting relationship with our surroundings, we meet him as a native language, and our family is growing. We begin to care for them as their loved ones. It warms us and want to serve our growing environment.
This is followed by the needs of self-sufficiency. The question of "where to get the money?" - Is the reverse side of the question, "how can I serve you? What can I do for you, you to be happy? "
Money comes to us from the outside world to create value for him. Therefore, the focus of attention on taking care of it leads to financial prosperity. Analyze and see the money come to you when you created for the people some value. We are not accustomed to think of these categories. We are more familiar with financial performance and career ladder. But behind all this, by and large, is SERVICE. This realization brings you to a new understanding of the step itself.
Not familiar at the beginning of call set up for the man outcome. When the transaction we say "sold." And it will replace the true value of actions, and therefore do not value themselves.
We do not have a culture of awareness. We're trying to do something to look better, be more efficient, better off. In these words there is no shade of care. And it's our culture. Culture benefits and bravado. At the same time we all want a good honest relationship. We are not pleasing to the people who impose their point of view. We do not feel them feel loved, because it seems to us that they want us smanipulirovat. Moving away from them and try to keep communicating to nothing. A person simply pursued their own benefit, and he was not up to our true desires, which, by the way, we ourselves can not always understand. But hypocrisy is always felt. The heart can not deceive. But the mind of the bait can be caught and what happened to each of us.
How can stop this rugged range of each other?
Open heart and act in love
"It's hard" - you might say, "when there is so much manipulation." Love can not be manipulated. And if you do not feel love for the other party, it is likely that begin to manipulate themselves. Stop the manipulation can only be sincere attitude to the interlocutor. And he feels his hypocrisy, his change of priorities. When he first put on the self, then closes the heart. He no longer recognizes the partner interlocutor, and saw an object to gain. From here take a lot of "no" to our environment.
Why are we so bad when rejected?
Yes, because I do not fed. If after giving us bad, so we wanted to eat. And I must honestly admit to yourself. What was our interest in conversing with? As far as he is revealed, trust? Here's to many, and told of their needs. Open person because he will tell all. And if we did not get to your suggestion, then, is simply not that well put it.
Only your open heart open man. And heard every 'no' - an indicator of your concerns about yourself. Admit this idea and analyze the received waivers. They - a valuable luggage for introspection. However, this is one of those for whom personal growth - the value. And if people are not really in need of your product or service, then your sincere respect for him, he will refuse care, and will not send. And do not be feeling de-energized, because you already gave each other the attention, even on other topics.
With each contact, be careful, and people will come looking for you. Enjoy the process of communication and keep in mind the priorities:
A. Love
Two. Family
Three. Environment
4. Self-sufficiency
In the next issue we will change with you priorities and see how life is formed with such beliefs. Although you can do it themselves by telling about their stories .
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