Continuation of Part 6 .
In a series of "Breakthrough heating" We named our not very positive reaction to the events of "letting off steam." In the fourth part of its four defined levels.
Today we look at first - not unconscious, letting off steam.
What does it mean in our context pairs?
The vapor - is the emotional stress caused by frustration of the situation.
"I boil with rage" - a person says that he is the bearer of evil. What must have belief that the situation is so annoying? Everyone reacts differently to situations. To some it - punishment. For some - a lesson. For the third possibility.
What defines a different outlook on life?
Filters consciousness
As we shall see, when you look at the sky through the different slides? If a red that will see the red sky, a green - green ... That's the perception of life.
So what are the slides in the minds of those who think that life - it is a punishment?
From childhood, we laid in certain types of convictions: "punish the guilty."
We were told: "If you will not listen to mom, get on the pope," that is will be punished. So, we must obey, behave.
Where in the human lexicon the word "punishment"? He was supposed to receive it is enough to fear for him was formed stably. The slightest manifestation of freedom and initiative gasilos shouts and whipping, condemnation and criticism. If this happens regularly, then the kid has doubts that his desires are good. And begins to be afraid to express them.
He trusted adult, so he believes that if all he does (judging by the reaction of adults) - it is bad, then it is bad. Adults have added to it: "There is nothing in your life do not come out and do not count! No need to build an illusion, "" your hands out of assholes grow. " Apologies for the People's slang. As they say, "the words of the song can not erase."
And now, formed the first shoots of non-self-sufficiency. Convinced of the uselessness of his, he decides to no longer occur, and to "sit quietly and below the water the grass." The phrase "Do what you say and no talking!" Suppresses any initiative. No one hears, understands, respectively. It feels strange and unnecessary. And through this prism of beliefs looks at all the adults, ie the world.
In such a closed compassion, "scored as" the people born on the phrase: "If a person is called a pig for a long time, it will sooner or later zahryukaet."
You probably have heard from many adults phrases like: "Oh, I'm such a sad sack," "Why, yes, I did not succeed!" All of these beliefs "from childhood." Then a man in life is difficult to decide either that he is in a subordinate for years the chief exploiter, henpecked chooses a position in the family, etc. And all of this, as you know, does not contribute to the manifestation of his inner strength, not to mention the talents .
Since childhood, having no choice in anything, in adult life, he can not make decisions. Waiting for him to have done more. Here begins the shifting of responsibility. He says: "You will succeed better." How did he know? He did not know it, but the fact that everything he does, it will be bad. This convinced him more than a year.
Internally, somewhere deep down he does not agree. How did all this disagreement is brewing?
From our natural knowledge of their inner strength.
We feel that the suppression of initiative and the detrimental
disrespect - it's not something that would like
Although in the life of another was not.
Each of us has a happy program implementation,
because each perceives the impairment of the pain.
To be continued ...
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