Note: this realization changed my life.
What prevents the union with Him?
Stranger reaction.
When what we like, is condemned, is not accepted. And we reject what is valuable to us. And now have lost a source of inner strength and inspiration. Nothing pleases.
How is the reaction of the other person has alienated us from our own source?
By the way, as we do with kids and our parents with us, when the kids did not support the emotional outbursts, could not find time for it to be happy together. At this age, parents' authority and their strong support, or not support is a criterion that is important is what happens in the soul of the baby.
If what is happening in it is not accepted, not accepted, it is often the kid finds that his feelings and thoughts have no value. And he chooses to express them no more. When this happens at every step, and a child hears that he is "brainless," "incompetent," it really begins to doubt its value. So from an early age began to drown his self-esteem. It is uncertain that the same fate does not befall his other symptoms. And choose "just in case" to "keep his mouth shut."
